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Why am I unable to make contact with God ?

This is an honest question that many of us ask. First of all I want you to know that God speaks to us all the time and everyday its just that God speaks to us differently to people. It has often been said that God moves in mysterious ways, well I can tell you right now that God speaks to us in mysterious ways too. It is up to us to see what God is doing and to hear what God is saying.

In Matthew 13:15-16 (English-NIV) it says the following
15 For this people's heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them.' {[15] Isaiah 6:9,10}
16 But blessed are your eyes because they see, and your ears because they hear.

Revelation 2:7 (English-NIV)
He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To him who overcomes, I will give the right to eat from the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.

The point that I am trying to bring out is that we have eyes and we have ears and we have understanding, yet some cannot see or hear or understand God because of the hardness of their hearts. I am not saying that you personally have a hard heart toward God, but a bad attitude toward God can blind us from him. He reveals himself to the innocent and to those that honestly seek him with all their heart. Another possible reason for not hearing God can be ignorance. What I mean by this is that we do hear and see and understand what God is saying, its just that we may not recognise it as God. We may think it is our own mind for example. Let me explain further. All things happen because it is Gods will or because he allows it even though it is not his will, but rather the will of another. God the Father speaks to us all the time its just that he doesn't talk to us directly most if not all of the time. God speaks to us in many ways. He spoke to many people 2000 years ago when Jesus Christ walked the earth. See 2 Corinthians 5:19
that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation.

Many people heard what Jesus said, it's just that they didn't realise that it was God speaking though his Son. God has spoken through the prophets and many heard what was said, yet many didn't attribute the message as coming from God. Today God speaks to us by his Holy Spirit who convicts all men of sin, righteousness and judgement. Many have felt the conviction of God and many have known the right thing to do, yet they do not realise that it is God speaking to them.

When I read the Book of Revelation I know that God is talking to me. Yet this book came from God and was passed down the line to Jesus, then to the Angel and then to John. John then sent it to the 7 churches and since then scribes have copied this text faithfully down through the ages which is where my version of the Book of Revelation came from. Yet I know that God speaks to me through that book and his Spirit confirms his words. See the verse below.
Revelation 1:1 (English-KJV)
The Revelation of Jesus Christ, which God gave unto him, to shew unto his servants things which must shortly come to pass; and he sent and signified it by his angel unto his servant John:

So yes God speaks to me but he speaks to me through many ways. This is why it is so important to listen to what people are saying to you. God speaks though people and I am convinced that we miss most of what God is saying to us because we look at the vessel that the message came in and think that it isn't God and yes that is true, but God speaks through these vessels.

Remember that God is invisible and he is Spirit and he also fills the universe and resides outside of his creation too. So why should we limit God to a human voice. Our spoken languages are a series of verbal sounds and tones that convey a meaning or picture to our mind, and our launguages are very limited. God usually bypasses this, and gives us the understanding or picture directly into our minds and spirits. This way it is less likely to be tainted by our own prejudices and narrow mindedness and of course some things that God shows us cannot be fully communicated by our limited language. This is why God gives us dreams and visions, infact visions is his language. Usually when God speaks to us verbally, it is usually because he needs our attention at that moment, perhaps to seize a moment, or to help us avoid some kind of imminent danger. Otherwise he prefers to speak to us by the language of his Spirit because it is a much richer form of communication.

I think we will be very surprised how many times God speaks to us in our dreams for example. He probably speaks to us every night in this way and even though you may not remember your dreams, I can guarantee you that what God has said to you will be manifested eventually.
Have you for example had a dream and been woken from that dream and remembered it, only to forget it right away when fully awoke. Or perhaps you had a dream and when you awoke you found that you could not explain the dream to anyone because what you had just seen and felt could not be described in words. Now just for a moment I want you to hold that thought as I show you something else.

Can you think of anything that doesn't exist or think of something that you have never seen ? Well the answer is "no". You cannot. Why don't you try it now........ Did you think of something that you have never seen or something that has never existed. If you think you have, then I want you to look at that thought and see that it is made up of things that you have seen. For example I may have thought of a 50 foot monster made of marshmellow. Ok fair enough this doesn't exist, yet the components of this monster are made up of things that I have seen. Marshmellow, 50 feet, head, body, teeth etc. Or maybe you thought of a worm hole that enables you to travel through time. Well worm holes may or may not exist but it is made up of familiar concepts such as time, a tunnel etc. Can you think of a colour that you have never seen. If you think you can then I guarantee you that it is just a combination of other colours that you have seen. Bearing this in mind and now going back to the thought that you have on hold to do with dreams that you have experienced but cannot describe in words, it becomes obvious that these types of dreams cannot be coming from your own mind because you are experiencing and seeing things that you have never seen or experienced before. This is not true for all dreams, but I just wanted to show you that someone is communicating to us in our dreams and that person is God who is the Father of our Spirits. Sometimes God may send and Angel to communicate to us in our dreams or whatever, but regardless of who he sends, it is God who is the originator of that thought or message or experience. Of course I know that dreams are often our own minds, fantasies or fears and can also have its origin in evil, but many do come from God. Listen to your dreams, God is trying to tell you many things there.

I believe that if you seek God with all your heart then you will find him.
I myself hear from God and his voice is an inner knowing in my heart of what his will is or what he is saying to me. If I harden my heart to that inner voice then I will most likely fall away from him slowly. But if I obey his voice then Gods will for my life can be realised and my relationship with him will become more intimate. I hear God speak to me many times, and I have also heard him on few occassions actually speak to my mind verbally and very clearly in English.

When I first gave my life to God, He put me through what I can best describe as a training course that was designed for me to hear his voice.
One day when I was at work I was sorting through a pile of invoices that I had processed ready for payment. I then heard what I thought was God speaking to me. He was conveying to me the understanding that I had made a mistake in my work and that I should check my work. So I did, yet I couldn't find any mistakes. I was in a hurry to finish my work, but I could still hear God telling me that I had made a mistake. I nearly ignored him because I was in a hurry, but I decided that this was an opportune moment to actually see if I was really hearing from him or not. I checked my work again and still couldn't find any mistakes. I then started to get disillussioned because in the past I had taken this voice to be the voice of God and he never let me down before. I decided that I would check my work again and I found the mistake. It was small, but the ramifications were quite big and I was very happy that I had listened to God because he saved me from any trouble that I would have caused from this mistake.

A couple of weeks later I was in a hurry again and driving quite fast down a street because I was behind schedule in my job. I clearly heard God speak to me. He told me to slow down. I said to God that I was in a hurry and needed to drive fast to catch up to my schedule. He responded by telling me to slow down as my schedule wasn't important in comparison to obeying his voice. I reluctantly slowed down even though I was in a desperate hurry. I reasoned that it is alway better to obey the voice of God rather than stick to my own agenda and I remembered how God helped me out before when I listened to him. All of a sudden a truck drove out of a driveway and onto the road without even looking and I knew without a doubt that I would of hit the truck if I hadn't slowed down. I then thanked God that he saved me from this potential accident and sped up again to overtake the truck. Again God spoke to me and said slow down and do not overtake the truck, so I obeyed him and slowed down. He then said to me pull back from the truck, so I had to slow down to about 40 KPH. I then started to feel a bit rediculous as I was sure that the cars behind me must be getting frustrated at my very slow speed. I said to God, why do you want me to do this. The danger is over isn't it ? Next I gazed in amazment as I watched the load on the back of the truck fall onto the road. Boxes and containers of fish were sprawled all over the road, but because I was a good distance from the truck and because I was driving slow, I was able to stop without any danger to me or the cars behind me.
After this I just thanked God and said to him that I would obey him when I heard him speaking to me from now on. I reasoned that obeying God is not a chore it is actually a good thing to obey him as he loves us and wants to protect us.

My message to you is this.

Don't ignore that still small voice in your heart. If you have never made God your master, then you will need to first turn from your sins and turn to him and serve him first. It is important that you seek him and that you know his voice. God truly wants an intimate relationship with you and he wants you to communicate with him as he communicates with you. This relationship will take time to develop, like any friendship does. But a true relationship with God is the most rewarding, fulfilling and intimate relationship a person can have

In John 10:27 (English-NIV): Jesus is recorded as saying
My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.

This scripture sums up what faith in Christ is all about. Its about knowing him and following him. He will lead you to green pastures.

And again I want to remind you that God speaks to us all the time. If we cannot hear him then we need to ask him to open our ears, we need to ask him to open our eyes and we need to ask him to open our minds and hearts. If you genuinely have put God first in your life, then you will inevitably move forward in your relationship with him and and as a result, you will learn to know his voice. As you obey him your discernment will be sharpened and as you mature spiritually, you will be less and less likely to listen to the voice of another. In the same way that sheep hear the voice of their shepherd, but will ignore the voice of another.

Revelation 2:7 (English-NIV)
He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches...

If you do not know his voice today. Then start by praying to the Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ his Son. You can be sure that if you ask anything in Jesus Name and according to Gods will then you will have it.

Luke 11:11-13 (English-NIV) says
11 "Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead?
12 Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?
13 If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"

Being able to discern Gods voice is how we are lead into Gods will for our lives. Being a friend of God and seeking him is how you will hear him. So I encourage you to seek him with all your heart, and obey his voice. Remember that God is Love and he truly wants to bless you with the riches of his life.

Some people have conveyed to me that they prayed to God and he never answered them. The reason why God hasn't answered them is because they are not really interested in having a true relationship with God and they are not willing to repent. God sees their heart. God will speak to us when we are serious about knowing him and remember that God always looks at our heart. He hears everything we say, verbally or in our mind and he is always on the lookout for a heart that is seeking him.

Matthew 7:7 Matthew 7:7 (English-NIV) says it all really.
"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.


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